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              2011
            
            
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              A Unique
            
            
              Birthday
            
            
              Celebration
            
            
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                wyla Doty
              
            
            
              and
            
            
              
                KimConley
              
            
            
              didn’t
            
            
              imagine that when their mother,
            
            
              
                Norma Jane Blackwell
              
            
            
              , learned to
            
            
              play bridge ten years ago at the
            
            
              Senior Center in Midland, Texas, it
            
            
              would result in a family trip to a
            
            
              country they had never visited. It
            
            
              was to become an adventure that
            
            
              they would thoroughly enjoy.
            
            
              This past August, Norma Jane was
            
            
              celebrating her 80
            
            
              th
            
            
              birthday. The
            
            
              suggestions on how to celebrate the
            
            
              occasion ranged from a family visit
            
            
              to NewYork to see Dr. Oz, to getting
            
            
              a new iPhone. Although Jane is
            
            
              virtually a maverick in the family
            
            
              when it comes to playing bridge—
            
            
              only one daughter and son-in-law
            
            
              play occasionally—her two daughters
            
            
              and her husband, Ray, decided the
            
            
              family would go with Jane to a
            
            
              bridge event to mark the special
            
            
              milestone.
            
            
              An Internet search brought up a
            
            
              weekend Better Bridge festival at
            
            
              Windermere House on beautiful
            
            
              Lake Rosseau, a popular vacation
            
            
              spot about two hours north of
            
            
              Toronto. This seemed like a perfect
            
            
              idea they all agreed.
            
            
              The weather, often a consideration
            
            
              for travel, was a factor. Texas had
            
            
              been experiencing a drought and
            
            
              triple-digit temperatures. Another
            
            
              attractive feature was the adventure
            
            
              of visiting Canada, which would be
            
            
              a first for all of them. Finally, the
            
            
              timing was not only appropriate
            
            
              for Jane’s birthday, but the dates
            
            
              coincided with Ray and Jane’s 58
            
            
              th
            
            
              wedding anniversary.
            
            
              The trip was a full day of travel but
            
            
              well worth it, they said. A three-hour
            
            
              flight fromTexas followed by a two-
            
            
              hour drive, and they were there.
            
            
              Was the visit to a new country what
            
            
              they had expected? “We consider
            
            
              Texas to be a very friendly state, so
            
            
              we were surprised by the exceptional
            
            
              hospitality and genuineness of the
            
            
              Canadian people. The beauty of our
            
            
              surroundings surpassed all of our
            
            
              expectations. We appreciated the
            
            
              non-commercialism and the true
            
            
              respite provided by the peaceful
            
            
              scenery and helpful staff.”
            
            
              And what about the bridge, we
            
            
              might wonder? Jane enjoys teaching
            
            
              any of her ten grandchildren who
            
            
              have the desire to learn, but on this
            
            
              trip she was the only family member
            
            
              who played. Jane might have been a
            
            
              little uneasy at first about finding a
            
            
              partner, but that changed very
            
            
              quickly. A suitable partnership was
            
            
              arranged, and she was at home
            
            
              among her new bridge friends.
            
            
              At a lunch break, when the bridge
            
            
              players were eating out on the large,
            
            
              traditional veranda surrounding
            
            
              Windermere House, it became
            
            
              obvious that Jane was the people-
            
            
              person that her family described.
            
            
              She became an integral part of the
            
            
              bridge group.
            
            
              Twyla and Kim said that their
            
            
              mother, a former teacher, was leery
            
            
              about how the various levels of play
            
            
              would be accommodated at the
            
            
              event, but that proved not to be a
            
            
              problem. The material was relevant
            
            
              to players at all levels.
            
            
              It was an exceptional experience
            
            
              for the whole family, and also for the
            
            
              other attendees, who loved having Jane
            
            
              as part of the group. You just might
            
            
              find the family at another event!
            
            
              Co
            
            
              the
            
            
              Twyla Doty, Kim Conley, Norma Jane Blackwell, and Ray Blackwell